Sometime ago actress Bose Alao Omotoyossi announced that her 10-year-old marriage to footballer, Rasaq, had hit the rocks.
However, in an exclusive chat with Sunday Scoop, Bose maintained that her marriage was intact.
She said,
“I WANT TO TAKE MY FAMILY OFF SOCIAL MEDIA BECAUSE IT IS NOT HELPING ME. MY HUSBAND IS NOT SOMEONE WHO ADDRESSES ISSUES ON THE INTERNET; IT SEEMS LIKE I’M THE ONLY ONE TALKING. IT IS TRUE THAT WE HAD ISSUES. ON THAT PARTICULAR DAY, WHICH WAS OUR 10TH YEAR WEDDING ANNIVERSARY, WE HAD A FIGHT AND HE SMASHED MY PHONE AND I WAS VERY ANGRY. IT WASN’T EVEN THE FIGHT WE HAD THAT ANGERED ME; IT WAS THE FACT THAT HE DESTROYED MY PHONE.”
“BECAUSE OF THAT, I POURED OUT MY ANGER ON MY WHATSAPP STATUS, WHERE HE WOULD SEE IT AS WE DO NOT FOLLOW EACH OTHER ON INSTAGRAM AND OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA. AFTER THAT INCIDENT, I WENT WITH MY KIDS TO A NEARBY HOTEL BECAUSE I WANTED HIM TO FEEL THE PAIN I FELT. I DIDN’T WANT IT TO BE PUBLIC KNOWLEDGE INITIALLY BUT A JOURNALIST ON MY CONTACT LIST SCREEN-GRABBED MY UPDATES AND POSTED THEM ONLINE. THAT TYPE OF NEWS ACTUALLY AFFECTS MY HUSBAND’S CAREER. TO BE HONEST WITH YOU, I AND MY HUSBAND ARE VIOLENT TOWARDS EACH OTHER AND WE’RE TRYING TO GET HELP. WHENEVER HE HITS ME, I RETALIATE BUT EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT HE CAN BEAT ME.”
“I HAD TO CONTACT STAR HELPLINE, WHICH IS AN INTERNATIONAL ORGANISATION, AND WE ARE UNDERGOING THERAPY RIGHT NOW. THIS IS ACTUALLY OUR SECOND WEEK IN THERAPY. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ISSUES BUT WE OFTEN EXPECT TOO MUCH FROM OUR PARTNERS. THERE WAS A TIME MY PASTOR EVEN TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD PUT WATER IN MY MOUTH WHENEVER I AM ANGRY BUT IT DIDN’T WORK AND I SPAT OUT THE WATER WHEN WE WERE FIGHTING.”
