An 18 year old Nigerian girl, who right now is pregnant for a married man, needs your advice.

The lady who is based abroad shared her story via relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin. Read below:

Please am in need of advice. I’m a student schooling abroad. Have been having an affair with a married man. I met him summer last year. I was shopping with friends and he paid for everything.

He’s like a best friend to me we facetime always, and do facetime s*x. He takes my advice seriously in his life, I supported his businesses in growing…

I found out I’m pregnant by way of urine tests. I’m 2 months gone I think. It’s illegal to do abortions in the city I am. I haven’t told him yet.

A part of me wants to keep it. He has expressed the need for wanting a son. He has all daughters with his wife in Nigeria. I really love him. What if it’s a boy? I’m catholic anyways and it’s a sin to abort.

I have never thought about being a second wife but he doesn’t love his wife. He loves me. He just copes with her because they grew up together. He cries when we have s*x. Like tears of joy.

Please advise me. I told my sister who wants me to come to Nigeria to abort it. Why can’t I have the man of my dreams? Please I’m an adult. Don’t bring the she’s young comments.