Nwadiuto Chiletam Amadi, a Nigerian lady, has caused a stir after she told the story of how she ‘used’ a man before relocating to Canada.
 
Defending her action, she said every ambitious woman understands that in a male-empowered society like Nigeria, there is no room for pity-partying.
 
“There is this guy I used (I feel a tad guilty). He handled many of my jakpa projects without pay even though I was willing to pay,” she narrated in a Facebook post on Thursday, December 21, 2023.
 
He was always available when I needed him
 
He kept running errands and even risked his career doing some not-so-clean jobs for me towering millions of naira
 
All these he did in the hope of getting some coochie
 
To be fair, I had the intention of doing lamongwash with him, even if it’s just once but the day we agreed to meet, he booked a cheap hotel
 
The paints were wearing off and the finishing wasn’t bespoke like the kind of hotel I’d mekwe in
 
(As I wan chop frog, make I chop big one niHe kept running errands and even risked his career for me - Nigerian lady narrates how she )
 
“Oga, I no fit do anything with you for this low-class excuse of a hotel”
 
That was how our would be rendezvous ended. By then, my visa application had gone through and my flight booked.
 
I felt pity for him. Guy must have invested every ounce of his energy in my course.
 
I walked out. Went home and called him. I promised to make it up to him some other time and he responded “Ok” in a pathetic voice… “Good boy”
 
Weeks later, I left the country.
 
Few days ago, my girlfriend who wants to japa too is asking for someone to some things for her and I sent our man to him.
 
Oh dear! I pity him cos this babe will rinse, wring and flap what I left in him
 
I hope there will still be some reserve for his family.